Clarifying
Your Core Values
by
Jim Clemmer
A key element
of "knowing thyself" is sorting out what's really important
to you. Without a clear sense of your personal principles and
priorities, it's almost impossible to bring the picture of your
preferred future sharply into focus. Investing the time and effort
to uncover and articulate your personal principles has many important
benefits.
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You'll
have a strong foundation to build your leadership upon. James
Kouzes and Barry Posner's study of credible and effective
leaders led them to conclude, "Values are directly relevant
to credibility. To do what we say we will do (our respondents'
behavioral definition of credibility), we must know what
we want to do and how we wish to behave. That's what our
values help us to define."
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Clear personal
principles give you a much stronger sense of your personal "bottomline." Knowing
where you stand clarifies what you won't sit still for.
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It's easier
to make choices between conflicting opportunities that arise,
where to invest your time, what behavior is most appropriate,
and where you need to concentrate your personal improvement
efforts.
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You'll
be much closer to finding your personal energy source and
developing that critical leadership passion.
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Your self-identity,
self-confidence, and sense of security will be strengthened.
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Your principles
will provide the stable and solid core you need to transform
the rapid changes coming at all of us from terrifying threats
into exciting opportunities.
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You can
more clearly see to what extent your personal values are
aligned with your team and organization's values.
To clarify
your core values, develop a comprehensive list of all your possible
values. Now rank each one as "A" (high importance), "B" (medium
importance), "C" (low importance). Review your A and
B values. Are there any that you feel are essentially the same
value or one is an obvious subset of the other? If so, bring
them together and rename it if necessary. Rank order the remaining
list from highest through to lowest priority. You should now
have your top five core values.
Focusing
on your core values:
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Ask yourself
whether these are your true, internal "bone deep" beliefs
or an external "should" value. We often don't recognize
a lifetime of conditioning that has left us with other people's
belief systems. Replace any "should" values with
your own.
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Examine
each core value to ensure that it is your end value and not
a means to some other end. For example, wealth is seldom
a value in itself. It's usually the means to status, power,
security, recognition, freedom, accomplishment, pleasure,
helping others, or some other end value.
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Write out
a "statement of philosophy" that outlines and explains
each of your core values. This is for you own private use,
so be as honest and candid as you can.
These exercises
are rarely done quickly. It could take you dozens or even hundreds
of hours to sort through the "shouldas", "oughtas" and "couldas" and
get to your basic, core principles. The more meditation, contemplation,
and writing time you put into this, the truer and more energizing
your core values will become.
Excerpted
from Jim Clemmer's bestseller Pathways to Performance: A
Guide to Transforming Yourself, Your Team, and Your Organization (Macmillan
Canada and Prima Publishing, Rocklin CA). Jim Clemmer is an
international keynote speaker, workshop leader, author, and
president of The CLEMMER Group, a North American network of
organization, team, and personal improvement consultants based
in Kitchener, Ontario, Canada. His web site is http://www.clemmer.net/.
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