Infidelity: It’s not whom you lie with. It’s whom you lie to

Chuck Gallozzi

Chuck Gallozzi lived, studied, and worked in Japan for 15 years, immersing himself in the wisdom of the Far East and graduating with B.A. and M.A. degrees in Asian Studies. He is a Certified NLP Practitioner, speaker, seminar leader, and coach. Corporations, church groups, teachers, counsellors, and caregivers use his more than 400 articles as a resource to help others. Among his diverse accomplishments, he is also the Grand Prix Winner of a Ricoh International Photo Competition, the Canadian National Champion of a Toastmasters International Humorous Speech Contest, and the Founder and Head of the Positive Thinkers Group that has been meeting at St. Michael’s Hospital, Toronto since 1999. His articles are published in books, newsletters, magazines, and newspapers. He was interviewed on CBC’s “Steven and Chris Show,” appearing nationally on Canadian TV. Chuck can be contacted at View his photography at

3 Responses

  1. Muy Gordo says:

    The author needs to write the same article with the betrayer being female.

  2. AB says:

    This was a really good article and extremely useful. The advice is very good and makes perfect sense. Thank you for your help at a difficult time.

  3. Anon says:

    Interesting, but I notice one thing was not mentioned.
    What about when the root cause of the affair is when the offending partner becomes despirate as a result of persistant, long-term sexual refusal by their spouse? This, today, has actually become a very common situation and a major, major problem. While it is no less wrong, it can become understandable as to why one could become that despirate. I would be interested in the author’s comment on this – very common – scenario.

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